Studies have shown that non-verbal communication accounts for a significant portion of communication. It is estimated that non-verbal communication makes up around 60-93% of all communication, while verbal communication makes up the remaining 7-40%.
This means that the way we say things – tone, volume, pacing, etc. – and our body language – gestures, facial expressions, eye contact, etc. – can have a greater impact on how our message is perceived than the actual words we use. As they say, actions speak louder than words!
Nonverbal Communication in Youth Sports
Communication skills are essential in creating a positive and effective coaching environment. While verbal communication is crucial, non-verbal communication skills are equally important. In fact, it can have a huge impact on the coach-athlete connection and as a result the performance and development of young athletes.
A study on the impact of coaches’ nonverbal communication on student-athletes found that athletes were more responsive to coaches’ body language than any other form of communication. The research revealed that athletes were able to comprehend coaches’ nonverbal cues 4.5 times faster than verbal communication.
Another study exploring the life skills needs of adolescent athletes found that non-verbal communication, including facial expressions and body language, was one of the most important factors in coaches’ ability to connect with and motivate adolescent athletes.
To give you one more example, sports psychologists studied the attachment between coaches and athletes and found that the quality of this relationship was closely tied to athletes’ well-being. And nonverbal communication, particularly facial expressions, played a big role in building that bond.
The takeaway? Great coaching requires a high level of self-awareness. How you communicate with your players can have a huge impact on their motivation, trust, performance, and overall well-being. So take the time to get to know your own communication style and work to create a positive and supportive environment for your athletes.
Expand Your Self-Awareness
Being aware of your body language, facial expressions, gestures, proximity, and tone of voice, can help you create a supportive and encouraging environment for your athletes. This level of awareness can also help coaches build strong relationships with their athletes, foster trust and open communication, and ensure that athletes feel comfortable seeking guidance and support when needed. Overall, a coach who is mindful of their non-verbal communication can create a positive and effective coaching environment that can have a lasting impact on their athletes’ development and success.
Take a moment to self-assess how you’re doing in these 5 areas of non-verbal communication:
Body language
Body language is an essential aspect of non-verbal communication. As a coach, your body language can convey your attitude and feelings towards your athletes. It’s essential to maintain an open and positive body posture, which includes standing tall, keeping your shoulders back, and making eye contact. Your body language should also be consistent with your words, tone, and message. Inconsistency in body language and verbal communication can lead to confusion and a lack of trust among your athletes.
Facial Expressions
Facial expressions are another important aspect of non-verbal communication. Smiling can be contagious and can help create a positive atmosphere. Your facial expressions should match the tone of your message. For example, if you’re giving a pep talk before a game, your facial expressions should be enthusiastic and uplifting. On the other hand, if you’re giving feedback, your facial expressions should be serious and focused.
Gestures
Gestures are also an important aspect of non-verbal communication. Simple hand gestures can be used to reinforce your verbal message. For example, giving a thumbs up or a high five after a good play can be an effective way to show your approval. However, it’s essential to use gestures sparingly and not overdo it, as it can be distracting.
Proximity
Proximity is the physical distance between you and your athletes. As a coach, it’s essential to maintain an appropriate distance. Standing too close can be intimidating, while standing too far can make you seem distant and unapproachable. Finding the right balance is crucial, and it can help create a comfortable and supportive coaching environment.
Tone of Voice
Your tone of voice can also convey a message. A harsh tone can be perceived as negative, while a gentle tone can be comforting. It’s essential to match your tone with your message. For example, if you’re giving constructive criticism, your tone should be calm and respectful.
The Responsibility of a Youth Sports Coach
In youth sports coaching, there is a significant responsibility to teach young athletes what effective communication looks like, particularly in the context of authority figures. Coaches serve as role models for their athletes, and their communication styles can greatly impact the athletes’ understanding and perception of effective communication.
When it comes to youth sports coaching, effective communication is a must. Not only do coaches need to communicate clearly and effectively with their athletes, but they also need to be mindful of how their non-verbal communication may be interpreted. After all, coaches are role models for their athletes, and the way they communicate can have a profound impact on how their athletes learn communication in general.
Self-awareness and intentionality are key in non-verbal communication. By modeling positive non-verbal cues, such as eye contact, gestures, and body language, coaches can set a good example for their athletes and help them develop important communication skills that will serve them well beyond the field.
In short, effective communication is a two-way street, and coaches need to be mindful of both their verbal and non-verbal communication if they want to create a positive and impactful coaching environment for their young athletes.